SPOILER ALERT! This post contains details from Wednesday night’s episode of The Golden Bachelorette. It’s Week 2 of The Golden Bachelorette, and Joan Vassos’ suitors are toasting to 401ks and Medicare in honor of making it past the first night.

The private school administrator picked the first man she wanted to go on a one-on-one date with in the Sept. 25 episode

Throughout her time on the Golden Bachelorette and the Golden Bachelor, Joan Vassos has made it clear that her family is her No. 1 priority. The ABC star is the proud mom of four children, all of whom she shared with her late husband,